A relationship that we always take negative is a relationship of a ‘Bahu’ (daughter in law) with her ‘Saas’ (mother in law). Whenever we heard a word ‘Saas”; a woman having aggression on her face comes in our mind who always try to ruin life of a girl.
Many conflicts nowadays in married life are due to small misunderstanding between Saas and Bahu.
This is a crucial relationship for every girl who is starting her new married life and she needs to handle it with caution. Problem starts when both ‘Saas’ and ‘Bahu’ want to have power over the poor guy who became a bone of contention between them.
It is the natural instinct of all humans to find themselves a mate. There is one partner destined to be yours forever is a fallacy a lot of us live with all our lives. Wife want that her husband should obey her after marriage and same is the case with ‘Saas’ who can’t bear to share her son with someone who just came in his life. We can easily make this relationship more pleasant, just mutual understanding from both sides is needed.
Leave that dog-eared stereotypes behind that ‘Saas’ is a demon, which you have to control from the day first. To start your relationship with a negative note is to axe it from the beginning.
Look at your ‘Saas’ as a unique individual and try to respect her individuality and understand your relationship with her. Remember that we all bear harsh words of our own mother so many times and forget them in the next moment, than why can’t we bear her, after all its because of her that you have a loving husband. Don’t overwhelm soap operas effect on your personal life that is the major reason at the present in creating conflicts between Saas-Bahu.
We all know how to make life simpler by not paying attention to small conflicts that are part of every family. We are new generation and modern, educated responsible ladies that is why we should make a difference by behaving properly. We can easily resolve these small issues, which can ruin this relationship, by simply obeying the rule “live and let live.”